Ok a big sorry to  the peops who have sent messages and had no reply. I’m really sorry but I’ve not been getting them. I had to reinstall part of my blog a couple of weeks ago and I’ve not realised that that automatically disabled the phpmailer. So while you think you’ve been sending me lots of chatty mail I’ve not actually been getting it. I’ve not been ignoring you .. I just couldn’t hear you. So if you still want to say hi then please try again.